Anger will abate and become more controlled when it knows it must come before a judge each day. – Seneca

Change is the most important aspect in life to be successful.
Change to be better by focusing on the positive side of life.
Lessening is the first start. Less selfish, less easy becoming angry easily, and  discovering to overcome the many bad habits that we have can also affect the people around us.

We can change if we embrace to become better.
Better child, better parent, better husband/wife, better friend, better manager, better team member, better health, better spiritually, better man.

Just like saying that if we don't have job find job or make your own job as a businessman.

We can change under any circumstances.. old or young. Identifying self fault and getting better in our faults is all that matters to make change.

Create your plan >>> then take action >>> then do the work.

I know that  changing to better self  will not take you to change just in a week.

First, we must know our imperfections through self-reflection or the introspection defined as observation of one's emotional processes.
       Below are some questions where you can try to rank yourself  from 1 to 10 , wherein 1 means you are struggling and 10 means you are strong.
1. Are you stressed out? Are you chilled out?
2. How are your health habits?
3. Are you eating the right foods?
4. Are you tired all the time?
5. Is it hard to fall asleep at night?
6.Are you sleeping 8 hours?
7. Are you fatigued?
8. How is your relationship with your partner, your children, and your parents?
9. Are you sticking to your vision?
10.How much stress are your finances causing you?
11. Do you see any changes coming soon?
12. Is money keeping you awake at night?
13. Are you prepared for challenges you have at work and as parent?
14. Do you need to acquire new skills to keep up?
15. Do you feel you are stuck in your life goals?
16. Are you making plans and goals?
17. Do you have big dreams?
18. How effective is your daily routine?
19.Are you on the verge of giving up?
20. Are you surrounded with the right and positive people to level up?
21. Do you have good role models in your life?
22. Do you have good communications relationship with your family?
23. Are you fixing your mistakes?
24. Are you avoiding conversations?
25. Are you hiding and hoping that the problems will fix themselves?

If you add up and your score and is under 150 there are some major problems in your life that needs to be addressed. And you need professional help.
On the other hand if the score is more than 150 which is better. It will also need a lot of work to do but you can fix it yourself and you know what you need to do.

Second, we must commit to change.
Lastly, believe that you can change.

"Remember, hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies." – Stephen King

Everybody experiences ups and downs in life. Big and small. Long and short. Maybe down first then up later or the other way around. 

Who will come out and say they never experienced any problem in life?

Problem can lead to  physical, mental and emotional stress.

It depends on how it is handled. Either make it stay and ignore it, or improve life and recover from it.

It is hope that is all needed to survive in this situations no matter how horrific, dark, deep and long it may take.

Having hope in life will keep you going.

So give some hope to someone so they will move on.

Give yourself some hope.

As somebody once told before that if there is a hope, there is a will. And when there is a will, there is a way. 

So give everybody hope.

Nobody knows what is written in the coming days of your life.

So no matter what problem that is, There is a hope.

"For me, I am driven by two main philosophies: know more today about the world than I knew yesterday and lessen the suffering of others. You'd be surprised how far that gets you.” ― Neil deGrasse Tyson

Self-education is a cheaper type of education but it needs more patience, more understanding, more reading and more searching. Never be discouraged from learning extra-curricular for all this is added to knowledge.  Knowledge may not be learned from just reading books and and instructions, it also requires experience, practice, ideas, action for results and feedback. Self-education without practice will lead to nothing. How will self-education lessons and information turn to action? 1. Start to do what is learned.       Don't wait when is the time to be ready, because the time to start is today. The sooner it is started the better. Don't expect so much on the payment, it is the experience that matters.  2. Process.      Observe and make record on the things taught. Reading a lot, taking notes, compiling and organizing the thoughts then repeating learned things from the experience helps improve memory. For easier retrieving, organize a system. Always carry paper tools where you can write things you have in mind. Try to write something on the experience.     Process flows on talking, teaching and other means where lessons and experience are on hand. Even if no one reads your compositions, your post and only 1 or 10 are your readers it doesn't matter. Don't worry on the attempts and learn and write about it. 3.Apply.      Expose and apply learned things. Ideas don't magically happen and it doesn't become action on its own. Just do it. Rather than sitting at home do some crappy jobs and write about it, what lessons are the result from it. Then combine read and learn, apply the lessons on whatever things happening and done. Connect all, what and how ridiculous it is, because never knowing what will happen may lead to something.    There is no fool should be,because the books can be read everywhere. Reading maybe a waste of time is not, if it accumulates the head, processed and acted on it has an outcome you will never know until you try it. Take risks and prove it. Get going.

"For me, I am driven by two main philosophies: know more today about the world than I knew yesterday and lessen the suffering of others. You'd be surprised how far that gets you.” ― Neil deGrasse Tyson

Self-education is a cheaper type of education but it needs more patience, more understanding, more reading and more searching. Never be discouraged from learning extra-curricular for all this is added to knowledge.  Knowledge may not be learned from just reading books and and instructions, it also requires experience, practice, ideas, action for results and feedback. Self-education without practice will lead to nothing. How will self-education lessons and information turn to action? 1. Start to do what is learned.       Don't wait when is the time to be ready, because the time to start is today. The sooner it is started the better. Don't expect so much on the payment, it is the experience that matters.  2. Process.      Observe and make record on the things taught. Reading a lot, taking notes, compiling and organizing the thoughts then repeating learned things from the experience helps improve memory. For easier retrieving, organize a system. Always carry paper tools where you can write things you have in mind. Try to write something on the experience.     Process flows on talking, teaching and other means where lessons and experience are on hand. Even if no one reads your compositions, your post and only 1 or 10 are your readers it doesn't matter. Don't worry on the attempts and learn and write about it. 3.Apply.      Expose and apply learned things. Ideas don't magically happen and it doesn't become action on its own. Just do it. Rather than sitting at home do some crappy jobs and write about it, what lessons are the result from it. Then combine read and learn, apply the lessons on whatever things happening and done. Connect all, what and how ridiculous it is, because never knowing what will happen may lead to something.    There is no fool should be,because the books can be read everywhere. Reading maybe a waste of time is not, if it accumulates the head, processed and acted on it has an outcome you will never know until you try it. Take risks and prove it. Get going.

“Your past failures have no bearing on your future,” Ford writes, “And if you can change the way you approach your work, you can change the way you live.”

Change your thinking and you will change your future..

If we always think of the past mistakes we did, we will never move on. Let that mistake stay in the past and we should learn from it. We should also learn from others' mistakes.

If we always hear negative from other people let them talk all they want, just ignore them, they are not the one who will stop us from our better future.

The best thing we can do is open up our mind and heart for a better change and it will reflect from the outside.

Forgive ourselves that we stopped doing what we love to do,

And forgive others who are the cause of it so we can move on.

We sometimes absorb people's negativity, we must avoid them. Think positive things that will remove that negativity.

Identify and talk to people who have positivism in goals.

Think and try some positive thoughts like " I am proud of doing this thing", "I feel strong and healthy everyday", "i'm learning a lot ", "i'm lucky to wake up", "i feel satisfied and accomplished today", "i feel better every time i do new things", ''i appreciate what i have accomplished today".

Life is so short to think of what others are saying. Don't let them bother you, go on with the life you want to live.

“I will tell you how to become rich. Close the doors. Be fearful when others are greedy. Be greedy when others are fearful.” – Warren Buffett

Money Money.. With our greed,  we make mistakes.

We make mistakes in investing.

If we don't know how to invest  we should ask help from more experienced people.
We should not put the last money we have or large amount of money in any business we don't have knowledge about it.

-We should consider the risk first and then see if the reward is worth it.

-An objective is a must before starting an investment. Planning and discipline can result to an accomplishment.

-Successful people are great asset for starting investors. They can help a lot rather than invest with your own risk.

-Invest in a profitable business.

-We should avoid so much debt or should not risk big loans for an investment we don't know.

-And we should invest in not just one business or investments.

"Life takes on meaning when you become motivated, set goals and charge after them in an unstoppable manner." – Les Brown

I am not waking up on the same routine again.. I will be making a little difference every day because i am not getting any younger.. Time is passing so fast.

The sun is always shining on me, never giving back what she deserve a smile.

A smile that gives a little bit of good feeling that keeps me going.

I may not be working with a boss..

I am a housewife, I am my own boss in the house.

I make the daily planning. I control my morning.

And i am payed off with my family's love.


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We must plan and prepare  more and better than yesterday.

We must control every morning we wake up and lessen distractions.

“The surest way to success is to add value to the world. Find your calling as quickly as possible and help as many people as you can.” – Craig Ballantyne

What if we are meant for more? Are we fulfilled with our lives. Are we doing some improvement day by day, doing some new things or we are like in circles doing the same routine each day.

When we were kids we had dreams, goals  and desires in life.  Some came true but most of it had gone away.

“The surest way to success is to add value to the world. Find your calling as quickly as possible and help as many people as you can.” – Craig Ballantyne

It is not too late for us to make our dreams come true.

We are just circling because we forgot what we want in life, our dreams for our family. The house? car? savings? travel around the world? And many more we desired for.

All we did was go to work and have a pay. Did we enjoy our pay?
If No? Because we have the exact amount for daily living. Think to prosper more. Be motivated to have our goals. Find good ways to reach our dreams.
If yes? Maybe we have insurance, we have good health, no problems for anything else.

For all the beautiful things that happened to our life we must also help some or many people.
Giving is a good way to return all the good things that is happening to our life.

"Associate with people who are likely to improve you. Welcome those whom you are capable of improving. The process is a mutual one. People learn as they teach.” — Seneca

Maybe we admit that we don't have the knowledge on abundance yet or we don't know how to practice abundance in our life. That even if we read so many books, studied and worked to reach abundance, there is something to learn more. That leads to the quote: "Associate with people who are likely to improve you. Welcome those whom you are capable of improving. The process is a mutual one. People learn as they teach.” — Seneca Life is a learning process, we don't stop at a certain point because we know all. We don't know everything. We also need someone who can teach us some views in life to abundance. The ones who are teaching us are also learning from our feedback. At some point where we get tired we must be patient.

"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." — Confucius

Behind our journey is a life worth living for.

We may be tested at times.. the scarcity lifestyle can be changed to abundance lifestyle. 

Abundance?? WEALTH is often associated with this. Yes wealth in health, thinking positively, fulfillment, spiritual, happy relationship and many more which give us good contentment in many aspects of life. 

For today's Quote:

"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." — Confucius

In everything we do there are always down time in our life some maybe deep or just a scratch, But we can rise in every mistakes or problems we have, this is our life that no matter what other may say, we are the one who can raise our own lifestyle.