Change to be better by focusing on the positive side of life.
Lessening is the first start. Less selfish, less easy becoming angry easily, and discovering to overcome the many bad habits that we have can also affect the people around us.
We can change if we embrace to become better.
Better child, better parent, better husband/wife, better friend, better manager, better team member, better health, better spiritually, better man.
Just like saying that if we don't have job find job or make your own job as a businessman.
We can change under any circumstances.. old or young. Identifying self fault and getting better in our faults is all that matters to make change.
Create your plan >>> then take action >>> then do the work.
I know that changing to better self will not take you to change just in a week.
First, we must know our imperfections through self-reflection or the introspection defined as observation of one's emotional processes.
Below are some questions where you can try to rank yourself from 1 to 10 , wherein 1 means you are struggling and 10 means you are strong.
1. Are you stressed out? Are you chilled out?
2. How are your health habits?
3. Are you eating the right foods?
4. Are you tired all the time?
5. Is it hard to fall asleep at night?
6.Are you sleeping 8 hours?
7. Are you fatigued?
8. How is your relationship with your partner, your children, and your parents?
9. Are you sticking to your vision?
10.How much stress are your finances causing you?
11. Do you see any changes coming soon?
12. Is money keeping you awake at night?
13. Are you prepared for challenges you have at work and as parent?
14. Do you need to acquire new skills to keep up?
15. Do you feel you are stuck in your life goals?
16. Are you making plans and goals?
17. Do you have big dreams?
18. How effective is your daily routine?
19.Are you on the verge of giving up?
20. Are you surrounded with the right and positive people to level up?
21. Do you have good role models in your life?
22. Do you have good communications relationship with your family?
23. Are you fixing your mistakes?
24. Are you avoiding conversations?
25. Are you hiding and hoping that the problems will fix themselves?
If you add up and your score and is under 150 there are some major problems in your life that needs to be addressed. And you need professional help.
On the other hand if the score is more than 150 which is better. It will also need a lot of work to do but you can fix it yourself and you know what you need to do.
Second, we must commit to change.
Lastly, believe that you can change.
